December 14, 2011

The Biggest Loser is a User

When should a person draw the line when it comes to love. Are we women so blinded by the ideal of a fairytale romance that we’ll let a man use us? And what about the nice guys who end up being treated poorly or thrown out to the wolves, all because of the users that have torn us apart at one time or another. We are so afraid to love again that we’re willing to lower our standards more than we should. But often times the problem is, we raise them way too high and expect our true love to be perfect in every way. Then, when they’re not perfect, we give up and move on to the next person and start the process all over again.

I think in some ways at some point in a person’s life, everyone is a user. But there is a line that shouldn’t be crossed. People shouldn’t be using to the point that their partner is jumping at their every demand 24 hours a day. And their partner should not feel like they’re more of an object, than a loved one, someone cared about and not put somewhere in a corner until they are needed again. Love is blind, love is a fool, yet the biggest losers are those who use us. When will we open our eyes and just see?